So whether you are chatting with him in line for scones, or across the dinner table from him, you can casually check if he is going for the lean in, or the lean back. I’m sure you’ve heard the saying “the eyes are the window to the soul,” and in this case, no need to draw back any drapes! If you are on a date and find that he is taking every opportunity to touch you, whether it be a brush of your knee, or even your elbow, he probably likes you. Can you see that he is perched on the edge of his seat in an effort to get that much closer to you? If the stranger at Starbucks makes consistent eye contact, give him a little something to go on. Let him know YOU are interested too, so he can come over and start up a conversation.

You don't want your date to suddenly feel like an interrogation or a job interview, so you'll have to take special precautions to make the question and answer process more bearable.

You could each write down questions on scraps of paper--serious and fun so that the mood doesn't get too heavy--and throw them into jars (yours in one, his in another).

Take turns fishing out questions and answering them.

You could also play a game where, for every point scored, the person who earned the point gets to ask a question.

Just be sure to choose a game you're sure to win or tie, or you may find yourself doing all the talking.

Whether you are making eyes at some hunky guy over your latte, or on a first date with a man you think might be a keeper, you need to know how to tell if a man is interested in you. Whether it’s a subtle lean-in, or even a full court press, proximity to you is a yes! Direct eye contact is a very good sign that he is not only interested in you, but also interested in what you have to say. The “accidentally on purpose” touches are an indicator that this is a man who is into you.

Check in using our Five Point “Is He Into Me” System – and wonder no more! Read his body language: Body language is a big clue to whether or not Mr. If you are walking through a crowd, he will help guide you by putting his arm on the small of your back or that good ol’ elbow.

If you want to see your relationship grow, you'll have to ask questions--lots of them. of The Couples Institute, recommends playing Twenty Questions with your partner because, "They [questions] allow you to discover or re-discover who your partner is." By developing a deeper understanding of your partner's mind and spirit, you could find yourself more deeply in love.

Getting to know one another in a question and answer session may seem unromantic, it's one way to feel closer instantly or let you know that you may need to reconsider your relationship. Learning about people's past can be tricky; you don't want to seem like you're giving them the third degree, but at the same time you want to know more them.

By encouraging people to tell stories about themselves, you not only learn about their history, but also about them from the way they talk about their lives.

These questions are designed to spark the imagination of the person, and drift off into speculation.