Andrew Reiner teaches writing, literature and cultural studies at Towson University.)hp&action=click&pgtype=Homepage&click Source=story-heading&module=mini-moth®ion=top-stories-below&WT.nav=top-stories-below&_r=0 Buddy (2138), , Monday 4 Apr well.blogs.nytimes.com/2016/04/01/boys-sex-peggy-orenstein-author-of-girls-and-sex/? He will walk into his sexual encounters seeing his partner as a partner, not as an adversary, and that’ s really meaningful."Meaningfulness as a common denominator, and not specific to leather, orientation, or age.

Since it does not mention gay I assume it may not be included. ) Either way this collection is a great way to see what people were looking for in erotica back then (and later) as opposed to how it was later interpreted.

Buddy (2138), , Wednesday 6 Jan & Style Gay Leather Scene Tones Down from Hardcore to Dress-Up By MICHAEL MUSTODEC.

22, 2015It's pretty disappointing to read that article's title and then see that what they actually mean is boys wearing harnesses who dance with loud music.

Buddy (2138), , Wednesday 23 Dec Sexual Attraction and Fluidityby Charles M. action=click&pgtype=Homepage&module=opinion-c-col-right-region®ion=opinion-c-col-right-region&WT.nav=opinion-c-col-right-region&_r=0This article (with over 400 NYTimes readers comments when I posted it) has nothing to do with leather but is particularly enlightening.

hpw&rref=fashion&action=click&pgtype=Homepage&module=well-region®ion=bottom-well&WT.nav=bottom-well&_r=0A Master�s Degree in ... Even as gay men differ and vary as colors and their many shades, I think that it is important and necessary for us to remember the drag queens of Stone Wall (June 1969) who were the catalyst in our gradual liberation into open nytimes.com/times-insider/2015/06/09/1964-homosexuals-proud-of-deviancy/1964 | �Homosexuals Proud of Deviancy� Buddy (2138), , Tuesday 9 Jun I thought this both interesting and amusing, and am posting it here since this is what lots of [leather]men do at [gay] bars.

Binge drinking: What the ancient world can teach us about dealing with drunken revellers (2138), , Wednesday 13 May I just got this letter from the NYTimes announcing their new "Men's Style" section on the first Friday of every month.It's obviously geared to all men but fortunately that also means gay men.It ends with what I think is the kind of human understanding that will increase coexistence and harmony among human beings.It also emphasizes Old Guard values:"People must be allowed to be themselves, however they define themselves, and they owe the world no explanation of it or excuse for it.They have to be reminded that the only choices they need to make are to choose honesty and safety. action=click&pgtype=Homepage®ion=CColumn&module=Most Emailed&version=Full&src=me&WT.nav=Most Emailed Since we are an on-line community I thought that this article might be both relevant and amusing. B.- I would never consider BLUF to be an on-line dating site.Attraction is attraction, and it doesn�t always wear a label." Buddy (2138), , Monday 7 Sep Buddy (2138), , Monday 15 Jun The following NYTimes article has links to other old articles which remind me of the time when people were less tolerant and more narrow minded.