Many of us in midlife are finding ourselves in a situation we never thought would happen to us ...

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Well, that clearly wasn't to be as dinner party dates became fewer and further between.

Was a single, lively, midlife woman a bit of a liability?

Was I seen as a threat by the women, who didn't want me 'flirting' with their men?

Was I far too free and happy and unattached for the guys who feared me 'putting ideas' in their wives heads? Those were the questions I had when I was online dating.

So I decided to work with a friend to craft my very own irresistible dating profile....worked and I'm now almost three years into a relationship with a wonderful man who loved my profile!

These are my suggestions and what I now work through with clients: Create a Username that grabs attention, don't be lazy and use your initials followed by a handful of numbers!

One of mine was Silver Pixie -- it's playful, cheeky and also lets people know I love my cropped silver hair ...

it's showing a bit of my personality right from the beginning. it might be a quote from a favorite film or book or it might be the first half of a sentence ...

you want to write something that leaves the reader wanting to find out more ...

one of mine began, 'Show don't tell' in your profile summary...

it's easy to write a list adjectives that describe you or to list things you like to do on a Sunday afternoon ...