One day she saw him not more than ten houses down the street mowing his lawn.When she called to confront him, he confessed that he lived there with his estranged wife and their six children.This was after approximately 6 months of solid dating. She now wished he would leave his wife for her, but she had already broken the cardinal rule.

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When Deborah told me about this man, I was very skeptical, and said that it is a very random thing to do, for a man to be driving around and compliment your appearance. She was flattered by him, and being easily flattered can be one of the most destructive things that can happen to our egos in the overall picture of things.

My advice to her was to have fun, enjoy it, and do not sleep with him.

This guy had her in bed within 3 dates, and suddenly stopped calling her. The last thing she wanted was to be dumped by this guy.

The writing was on the wall, however, that this man had something to hide.

There are generally three different types of attitudes that women have when they are dating a married man.

One is that they want the guy to divorce their wife and marry them, the second is that they just want to have an ego boost, and the third is that they want money.My close friend Deborah met a man while getting out of her car in front of her house one day.She is an attractive woman who lived on a busy street, and a man stopped his car when he saw her walking from her home to her car, and he introduced himself.But, by cheapening herself right away, he can only compare her with his wife who was a virgin when they met, and a lady in his eyes.He certainly does not want to risk what he has when he could easily drive around and see any other pretty woman and can charm her the same way.She continued to see him, dress up for him, and give this man her all, for absolutely nothing in return.